Bridging the cultural difference

Bridging the cultural gap between the Egypt and the United States was an easy step for the 34 students participating in the Egyptian-American Dialogue tonight. The group was split between 16 Egyptians and 18 TWC students, who varied in nationality and in backgrounds.

We started the dialogue off with a more than 40 minute discussion on “The Gaza War and the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict.” It was an interesting talk as you can imagine when people are giving their opinions on war. The Egyptian students were very much againt Israel’s actions thus far in blockading the borders and firing back on Gaza Strip. One Egyptian student was so prepared- he had this huge map to point out the different countries.It was, however, interesting to note that while he was quick to have the exact number of Palestinians that died in the 6-day war, he did not remember the 13 Israelis that died as well. While this number is not as high as the near 1,300 Palestinians, it is still important because there would have been more if the weapons being fired out of the Gaza Strip were of a better quality.

It was hard to switch topics, but we did manage to discuss “The Obama Administration and U.S. Relations with the Arab and Muslim World,” as well as “Correcting Negative Stereotypes between Americans and Arabs and Muslims. The Egyptians were basically together in that they felt that Obama and the United States should be involved in correcting the problems in the Middle East and my roommate, Ever, gave by far my favorite answer on the topic. Ever said, that while the U.S. President should try to help correct the situation as much as possible, his real duty is to his constituency and to doing what is best for them. She reminded us all that at the end of the day-he has to take care of his country’s needs first.

The topic was a great opener into our last topic, which was negative stereotypes. The TWC students started the discussion by saying one of the main stereotypes was that citizens of the Middle East hated the West, especially the United States. It was comforting to know that while the Egyptians were initially afraid to find mean and cold Americans upon their arrival, this did not happen. They said the welcome was great, and everyone friendly-they loved it.

I followed another TWC intern in expressing how to correct the negative sterotypes (and yes, I did speak up earlier in the debate when discussing the Israel/Palestinian Conflict). I said that each country should take a pro-active stance in helping other countries understand their customs and lifestyle, such as Arkansas State’s endowment by the Saudi Government for students/faculty wanting to study and/or research in the Middle East.

It is funny now to think of how difficult it was after the dialogue for the moderator and program advisers to get all of us students out of The Washington Center and on our way to dinner. After the dialogue was over, the Egyptian and TWC students took a picture together and then started talking more indepth about our view-something we were not able to do during the dialogue.

The 16 Egyptians, who are all college students at etiher Cairo University or Alexandria University, are currently in D.C. through a grant from the U.S. Embassy in Cairo and touring/interning through the American Council of Young Political Leaders. They found out where they would be interning at for the next 6 days at dinner. My other roommate Caylah and I ate dinner with a one girl interning with John Kerry. To say she was excited is an understatement. She is studying American government, and has portrayed Kerry’s role in government in class mock exercises.

It was also fascinating to listen to the girls speak about shopping. One girl said all she wanted to do was shop, which they have not had time for. Apparently, Egypt only has select jean sizes which are all too large for her. While in D.C., she was determined to buy a lot of jeans to bring home with her. It was an odd experience-I never thought to hear that a country did not carry select sizes and that she was too tiny for them. I mean, she was about a size 3-6.Another great thing at dinner was the fact that I finally handed out some of my new businesses cards! Yay.

In all, the Egyptian-American dialogue was a worthwhile experience that I am glad I participated in. I did learn more about the Egyptian students and their culture during our walk to the restaurant and dinner. We have more in common than I thought and I definitely would love to go to Egypt now. The dialogue was also helpful in that it helped me work toward my personal goal of being able to announce my opinions to people and being able to defend them. I spoke twice before the crowd, and was treated with common courtesy and interest.

The dialogue was great in the fact that while we all did not agree at times, we were able to share our opinions calmly and rationally and we treated each other with respect. I would definitly not mind attending a dialogue like this again.

Apartment

Here’s some photos from my new apartment. It is a pretty cute and spacy apartment, even though we only have two rooms for four people. You know it is sad when TWC has to give a “friend” speech. I have to admit though they made the speech funny with talking about checking in with your roommates if you are not coming home and saying the RA’s did not want to call interns while they were doing their “walk of shame.” Anyways, here’s the photos:

Ever's and my bedroom.
Ever’s and my bedroom.
The living room
The living room
Our dining room and kitchen
Our dining room and kitchen

The McDonald’s fight.

There was a fight at McDonald’s today, and it was all because of me. Well, you see what happened was … I decided to stop at McDonald’s and grab a bite to eat before class. What I did not count on was the weird guy talking to himself in the corner. He was sitting on my left and, when he started talking to me, I made the mistake of answering the questions especially the one asking what I studied. He obviously did not like journalists and started to get upset with me. I ignored him and eventually this woman, who previously had been sleeping in a booth on my right, came to my defense. Let’s just say it was a fight waiting to happen and I made my escape as they yelled at each other about where each other and their mamas could go. It was an eventful 10 minutes and I am still upset about it. It was so stupid but one thing is for sure – I am never going to that McDonald’s again! I ended up being late for my first day of class and luckily the professor did ont call me out for it. The class seems like it is going to be okay. We are starting the course out with a field trip to the National Press Club to see The Kalb Report. I am kindof excited about the trip. It should be interesting. The only thing I do not like is that the professor announced that she does expect each student to participate vocally in role playing and answering/debating. I am not looking forward to this part of the course-I was shaking today when all I had to say was my name, internship, university and major. It was a simple announcement, but I was freaking out. However, the course should help me reach one of my personal goals this semester-to be able to announce my opinions more freely and be able to defend them. This morning, I went to more department meetings at work, and met with the association’s president. This was all great, but the best part of work was meeting with my superviser and finding out what all she (and therefore me) would be in charge of. I was not able to start working officially on any projects yet, but I am supposedly going to be able to start on my first project-writing a blurb for a web story-tomorrow. I cannot wait! I am ready to begin working! It is interesting to note that at work, everyone is very independent. The departments work with each other but each has a specific duty that they do not really ask for help with. I am mentioning this because they are all so busy. I mean they are all juggling so much and working so hard, yet they are able to accomplish it all with smiles and laughter throughout the day. Speaking of smiles, Ever and I bonded after I got home from work and class. We aired our separate grips and complaints from the day, such as me disenabling our Internet service this morning when I was half-asleep. It was fun talking about work, major events and boys. Our little complain session made me feel better and reaffirmed that we are going to work out as roommates!

The work experience

I began my first day of work 24 minutes early. It was snowing outside and I was one of the first people to arrive at Pulmonary Hypertension Association. It was a one-and-one-half hour commute by metro and I was afraid to be late. It was still better to be early than late and it was a telling experience of my co-workers: They are nice, friendly and extremely helpful. PHA, which is in offices on the fourth and fifth floor, has about 30 co-workers. My boss and a few others, whiches includes the PHA president, happen to be on the fifth floor. Since no one was in that office when I arrived, a co-worker on the fourth floor kindly took me under her wing and showed me around, talked to me and basically made me feel welcome. Once everyone was in the office, it was an interesting day. Each department is made up of two to three people who are taking time out of their schedule to introduce themselves to the interns. While everyone has their own projects, it is neat how they all interwine together and the association does have a strong desire to involve their community of people involved in PHA. All my co-workers have a strongly defined character: Compassionate, opinionated and very kind-hearted. My boss and two co-workers took us interns and a new co-worker out to lunch as well. I was slightly worried when I realized that we were talking so much that two-and-a-half hours had passed. We only have one-hour breaks and it was my first day, but then again, I was with my boss. I guess, for the circumstances, it was forgivable since she was right there with me. They seem to be a tight-knit group and it will be interesting getting to know each of them. I was slowly introduced into my new role at PHA as the web publications and content management intern. I have figured out some of my duties, which will include writing, editing and learning some basic IT services work. I have not discovered the exact duties I will be doing but I will learn more tomorrow.

I will also be attending my first night of class tomorrow. I am in Press, Power and Politics. The class will be talking about why people leak information to the media, the role of press conferences, communications strategies and self-promotion. The class should complement my previous studies, which have mainly focused on gathering the news and reporting for feature and news stories. In my college experience, I have attended press conferences and received leaked information, but my classes have never really focused so much on getting it and understanding it as much as the correct style to report on it. The class should help me understand the reality of why press conferences and other class topics are taking place when I cover them for a newspaper. The class will also help me become more knowledgeable within my field, and that is basically my number one goal: To strive to become successful at my chosen career.

What have I done?

I have signed up to participate in the third annual Egyptian-American Dialogue on “Critical Issues Facing the U.S. and the Arab World.” It will feature 20 Egyptian students in D.C. for an month-long exchange program and around 2o TWC students varying in majors and where they are from. I am more than a little nervous on this dialogue. The three main issues we are discussing will be 1. the Arab-Israeli conflict, 2. the foreign policy challenges for the Obama Administration in the Mideast and 3. Correcting negative stereotypes Americans and Arabs have about each other. I guess I am most nervous in the fact that I am not the most coherent person in the world, I mean that is why I chose writing as my profession. I am also horrible at talking in front of groups that I do not know. However, both of these reasons are why I chose to be in this program, other than the fact that I find it an interesting topic. One of my goals for this semester with the TWC and the internship is to brush up on my public speaking and knowledge of world events and history, which I have slacked on in recent years. A mandatory briefing on the Middle East was held today for over two hours for all of us TWC students participating. I have two of my roommates participating as well. It was a long meeting as we covered as much as possible on the history of the Israel-Palestinian conflict and more. However, one good thing did come from this, well I did learn a lot as well, but I now know of one topic now that I can speak out about-the correcting negative stereotypes Americans and Arabs have about each other. I have Arkansas State to thank for that! I now have until 4 p.m. Thursday to brush up on my Middle East knowledge and to prepare. The dialogue is scheduled for 4:30 p.m. Thursday at the TWC with dinner following to allow all the students to mingle.

A “wicked” weekend

Caylah (from left), Sheila, me and Ever.
The Roommates: Caylah (from left), Sheila, me and Ever.

It was my first weekend in Washington, D.C., and all TWC interns were free to do whatever they like. I chose to spend the time getting to know my roommates. Our fourth roommate, and the girl I would be sharing a room with, finally came back to the apartment after spending the week with her mother and grandmother. Her name is Ever, as in forever and ever (that is how she described her name to us). She is from Mexico and pretty nice. Anyways, Saturday started off with a nice and free pancake breakfast followed by a free Georgetown Walking Tour. I got to visit The Old Stone House, home to the historical Adams’ family, the Potamic River, the steps featured in The Exercist and also Georgetown University. The group consisted of a variety of TWC interns and it was fun getting to know everyone. Here’s some pictures from it.

Passing by a canal.
Passing by a canal.
The steps shown in The Exercist
The steps shown in The Exercist
Are we not such studious GU students?
Are we not such studious GU students?

Sunday was the best part of the weekend. Sheila’s friend Johnny is stationed here in D.C. with the Army and offered to take us on a tour. We obviously were not going to to say no to an offer like that, especially since he had a car. It was a laid back day while we toured D.C., looking at the White House, the memorials and fed the birds and squirrels at a refreshment stand near the Lincoln Memorial. Johnny teased us, especially Ever, by picking us up with Starbucks in hand and we could not find a Starbucks anywhere for us girls to get one until near the end of the tour. We finally ended up at Johnny’s coworker’s girlfriend’s apartment for the Superbowl. We missed the kick-off due to the Puppy Bowl. It was annoying, but the puppies were so cute! Here’s some photos of Sunday.

The White House with Secret Service on top!
The White House with Secret Service on top!
Feeding the jealous seagulls
Feeding the jealous seagulls
At the end of the day outside Congress
At the end of the day outside Congress

Tomorrow is the big day- I attend my first day at the office. I will be in meetings all day, so I am nervous. It will be a different environment from the newspapers I have worked at and school. I did a test run to my work bright and early today. Ugh. It took me two hours to get there. So I will be up pretty darn early if anyone needs a wake up call within the next four months. Well-wish me luck!